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Dating & Relationships
Holistic & Spiritual Sexuality Coach
Internet Dating Specialist
Coaching Through Tarot
Mediation * Conflict Resolution

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Inner Voyages is an agency dedicated to providing quality services, with fees and formats designed to meet the varying needs of our clients. We offer discounted fees for organization, business and corporate clients.
We offer:
*Private Coaching Sessions
*Group & Community Coaching Workshops
*Lectures & Seminars

Our Services Include:

Life Coaching
* Personal Growth & Development Coaching
* Communication for Success

Singles & Dating
*Living Single & Loving It
*The Dating Game

Relationship Coaching
* Friends With Benefits
* Relationship Success by Design

Holistic & Spiritual Sexuality
*Making the Most of Your Sexual Experience
*Just How Important is Sex in a Relationship?

The Art of Internet Dating
*Marketing You Online
*Cyber Safety

The Tarot Connection
*Direction/Insight Consultations
*Major Arcana/Power Reading
*Open Reading

Online & Tele Services
Inner Voyages now offers its Coaching Services as well as its Workshops and Seminars Online, via Teleconference and on CD. CLICK HERE for details

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Feature Article

The Female Persuasion

Yes ladies, we all wear our 'female' at times, play the games, manipulate through feminine wiles and pretend to be something we're not. We do this primarily as a direct result of pre-programming, environmental role modeling and because, lets face it, it does get us what we want. If we consider this course in the grand scheme of things however, it usually serves to provide a short-lived fix which eventually comes back to haunt us. Is the female persona a gift, a curse or simply an abuse of power?

We size up men for their potential and then attempt to train and transform them into our ideal image. We pretend to be offended by their masculine presentations and open assertions regarding sex. We turn on the charm and the tears at will and are determined to make the men in our lives responsible for our life experiences and happiness. We hold the power of sex and wield it to trap them and at a moment that suits us, transform it into a tool of punishment and torture for any lack of patronization. Are those mixed messages and abuses of power conducive to the success and happiness we seek?

Each time we choose a man it is based on our visions, our needs, our hopes and dreams and by our standards and design. If things don't go according to our plan we blame him for our own bad choices. One of the biggest complaints from men is that innate need women have to change them, to mold and shape them to the female design. Men are what they are, and most like it that way. If women did not hold the power of sex men wouldn't dare agree to conform. However, forcing that reform usually means failed relationships or breeds discontented men who cheat. Are we really better off having an unhappy man rather than no man at all?

Any woman who has spent time out with the girls can attest to our conversations regarding sex. Most often they are more open and raw than those hosted by men. Yet when a man dares to speak of such things in our presence, we behave as if we have been grossly offended and demoralized.

Women love sex until they get into a relationship or marry and then sex becomes something ugly. Our lust and sensuality are replaced with age-old designs, complacency and female power. We use that power as both punishment and reward leaving men confused and frustrated with the inconsistencies.

Men carry the visions of their relationships and home life to the workplace where they are exposed to the temptations of finely decorated women who are playing the same games and using those same feminine wiles to gain attention as we did when our designs were new. Men then go home to a whiny, bitchy woman in sweats or to the woman who is absorbed in her own workplace issues and has no desire to share loving intimacy with him. If our goal is to make them happy we are definitely going about it in the wrong way.

It is not difficult to understand why they cheat or want out of the relationship. Women smugly maintain their power and refuse to conform. The men are expected to make the changes and sacrifices needed to keep the relationship in tact. If men cheat it is blamed on their bad character rather than the world their women have created for them. There is little attention paid to their needs as men, yet we cry foul when the relationship has failed.

Being feminine is admirable and promotes positive reactions and responses. Being female is ugly business and provokes the negative images of the female persuasion that have been passed down through the ages. Men should be accepted as men and not created in the female design. For when the spell has been broken by frustration, there is no magic formula to reincarnate its power and influence. Successful relationships demand that we accept our men as men and wear our femininity with pride. Our female is best left in a shallow, unmarked grave in the back yard.
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Inner Voyages now offers its Coaching Services as well as Workshops and Seminars Online and by phone.

New! Inner Voyages in pleased to announce the addition of The Tarot Connection to our family and list of services.

TheTarot Connection will offer coaching through tarot. These coaching techniques offer a different approach to gaining inner strength,problem solving and creative expression.

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